Verb conjugation of "danser" in French

My mom and dad used to speak English when they wanted to say something I shouldn't understand. In this way I have learned English. I did not tell them till late, but I did understand every word they said.
Carl said that he would need a private tutor for his spoiled son. My opinion is that sometimes this is counter productive measure as it gives the pupil a feeling of being weaker then the others and may lead to discouragement.
In school, we now are learning the grammar part, more specifically, the participles and so on. I understand it at all, but the conjugations, boy they are tough. A lot of patience is needed.