Translation of tenderse

His name was Leo and he would become a good friend of mine during the next two weeks. He had a lovely girlfriend where he stayed during my visit. Basically, I slept in his place when he was away.
But his intensions are clear. By saying: 'I do not want anybody but you, I don't want anyone else...' he actually refers also to the unborn child. He is putting her into a sad dilema. She refuses.
I got a nickname. Please answer the questions from my previous email (below), except number 4, which is answered on the Vocabulix's faq page. I am ready to start tomorrow, but i need the info first.